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Billy: Can we analyze them as in Architecture and Toy Design ?
RUBIC’S CUBE – TURNING AND TWISTING TO MAKE VARIOUS EXPRESSIONS
LAGO TOY shows how GLOBAL CONNECTIONS CAN BE FORMED
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BILLY FURTHER WONDERS: CAN WE DESIGN FRIENDLY ARCHITECTURE?
CAN ARCHITECTURE INDUCE COMPASSION ?
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By Billy Lee – December 2022
I try to grasp the essence of causes and effects in relationships, so that I can have a reasonable compass to guide my own behavior, and I like to reduce the number of words to the minimum in defining solutions, since over-complex explanations sometime distract and even mislead our focus.
On “How To Build Trust And True Friendship?”, I have the following suggestions.
1: You must believe that Trust and True Friendship are important in your life.
2: You must try to be Modest and Compassionate.
3: Never intentionally or unintentionally hurt another person – physically, materially, or emotionally. Always be sensitive to the Friend’s Pride & Honor.
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Billy Lee December 2022
My good friend, James G Luce, thinks a mile a minute. I usually can’t keep up with him. But he is kind and often slowed down a bit and patiently explained what I was still puzzled about.
I thanked him for WALKING MY PACE WITH ME.
He replied,” WE ARE ALL WALKING DOWN THE ROAD TOGETHER. The conversation is enlightening at all times.”
I inquired if there is a song already with that name, and if not will he compose one for our <https://FRIENDSHIPOLOGY.net>
James first mentioned that “ON THE ROAD AGAIN” written by Bob Dylan and sung by Willie Nelson was worth remembering. He dashed out the following composition the following day:
Walking Down the Road Together
By j. luce
Inspired by Billy Lee
(Sung to the tune of Roundup Lullaby, my favorite childhood song)
(links to the history, the score, and the melody )
http://folksongcollector.com/desert.html
Walk’n down the road of life all by yourself
Ain’t my kinda way to get around.
What’cha need is folks who sorta dream like you
Who help ya let your troubles settle down.
Slow down, so love don’t fly away
There’s time enough for talk’n, just forget about that squawk’n
Yes folks, we all can get along,
it must be true ‘cause it works for me and you
Yes folks, we all can get along,
it must be true ‘cause it works for me and you
Nothin’ miss’n in your life but more good friends.
Nothin’ that you need is in a store.
What the world is miss’n is within your heart,
Share’n what you got’s a real good start.
Yes folks, we all can get along,
So get walk’n down that road with your companions.
OBT
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Billy’s Comments: Luce and I got acquainted when we both joined The 1990 Institute thirty-two years ago.
He has always been kind by WALKING MY PACE WITH ME.
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By Billy Lee December 2022
FRIENDSHIPOLOGY means STUDY OF FRIENDSHIP or indeed HUMAN RELATIONSHIP. What enhances GOOD RELATIONSHIPS and what causes AWKWARD RELATIONSHIPS ?
MISTREATMENTS whether PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, DIRECT, or INDIRECT are the NEGATIVE FORCES. Some unkind acts are INTENTIONAL, some ACCIDENTAL, some REACTIONAL, some INDUCED or PROVOLKED.
OPENNESS, EMPATHY, TOLERANCE, FORGIVENESS & TRUST are the POSITIVE COMPASSIONATE ENERGIES we all need to develop as FRIENDLY GLOBAL CITIZENS.
discovered by Billy – November 2022
Loving and Amazing World Posted by Dasha Tara –Updated Oct 18
1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;
2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. The same goes for umbrellas, pens, and lunch boxes.
3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you lunch/dinner.
4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don’t you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;
5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;
6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;
7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what’s 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, a second opinion is good for an alternative;
8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;
9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you’re;
10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.
11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;
12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;
13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;
14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctor’s appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say “I hope you’re okay”. Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you about their personal illness. If they want you to know, they’ll do so without your inquisitiveness;
15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;
16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;
17. Never give advice until you’re asked;
18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;
19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly – just stay out of it;
20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and
21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don’t talk about your children in the midst of the barren.
22. Always remember to show APPRECIATION
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