Words That Describe a Good Friendship

Have you ever thought of what friendship really means? It is really hard to put into words. Friendships are mutually beneficial, meaning each of you get something out of the relationship. Friends are there when you need them, whether to comfort, support, congratulate, or just listen. Browse this list of words that describe a good friendship, or a true friendship.

amiable	amicable	beautiful
deep	eternal	heartfelt
intimate	lasting	lifelong
loving	mutual	reciprocal
selfless	sincere	steadfast
strong	true	unbounded
uncomplicated	unequalled	wonderful

Words to Describe Qualities of a Good Friend

When you think of how to describe your good friend, what words immediately come to mind? Explore adjectives to describe a friend for great ideas on how to talk about your BFF.

affable	affectionate	attentive
available	believable	brave
caring	cheerful	considerate
cordial	discerning	easygoing
empathetic	faithful	forgiving
funny	generous	gentle
giving	good listener	honest
humorous	kind	loving
loyal	nice	optimistic
punctual	reliable	responsible
sensitive	sincere	sociable
sweet	sympathetic	tactful
thoughtful	trustworthy	truthful
warm	warm-hearted	winning

Great Sayings About Friends

If you are composing a speech or writing a paper and need some sayings or quotes about friendship, consider these famous quotes.

• “The more I think it over, the more I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.” – Vincent van Gogh
• “Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” – Marcel Proust
• “Friendship is a sheltering tree.” – Samuel Coleridge
• “The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen…A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.” – Rachel Naomi Remen
• “Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.” – Mark Twain
• “The only way to have a friend is to be one.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Wise Words on Friendship From Dale Carnegie

Dale Carnegie wrote one of the first ever self-help books called How to Win Friends and Influence People in 1937. In the book, he explains how to handle people, make them like you, and how to influence them. He stresses the importance of:

• not criticizing or complaining, but giving honest opinions
• the need to smile, remembering their name, and being sincerely interested in people with whom you want to make friends
• being a good listener, getting them to talk about themselves, and then continuing the conversation about things that interest them

These things make the other person feel important and that can be the beginning of a friendship.

Carnegie’s Tips on Making Friends

Dale Carnegie had many words that describe a good friendship and advice on making friends. He also shows the importance of a positive attitude, and that can help you make friends. Here is a sampling of his wisdom.

• The royal road to a man’s heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most.
• When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.
• Do things for others and you’ll find your self-consciousness evaporating like morning dew.
• You can make more friends in two months by becoming more interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you.
• When fate hands you a lemon, make lemonade.

Words for Friends

Talking about a good friend or friendship should be fun and inspiring. Now that you’ve got some great words to describe your best friendships, learn words to show your appreciation for those important people.

Michele Meleen – Staff Editor, Your Dictionary.Com

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from < https://grammar.yourdictionary.com/style-and-usage/words-that-describe-a-good-friendship.html > -Staff Editor Michele Meleen

Examples of Words of Appreciation

Who doesn’t like to hear a “Thank you” or “I appreciate you” every now and then? Whether you’re thanking someone for a gift or favor or just for being a good friend, words of appreciation are always appreciated! Sometimes, however, it’s hard to know what to say. Luckily, we’ve got your back. From short and sweet messages to longer phrases of appreciation, here’s how to express gratitude anytime, anywhere.

Common Words of Appreciation

You don’t have to give a big speech or write a long thank you letter to let someone know you appreciate them. Sometimes short is sweet.

·  Thanks.

·  Thank you.

·  I am indebted to you.

·  Dinner was delicious.

·  I appreciate you.

·  You are an inspiration.

·  I am grateful to/for you.

·  You are a blessing.

·  You are a true friend.

·  You’re so great.

·  This is great.

·  You light up my life.

·  My sincere thanks.

·  You’re the best.

·  You make me happy.

·  You’ve been very helpful.

Common Appreciation Sayings

If you’d like to say more than three or four words of appreciation, these phrases help make your sentiments feel more powerful. 

• I don’t know what I’d do without you, and I hope I never have to find out!
• I only hope I’m able to someday give back to you what you’ve given to me.
• “Thank you” doesn’t feel like enough, but it truly sums up how I feel. I’m so thankful for what you’ve done.
• Your thoughtfulness has not gone unnoticed. It will stay with me forever.
• The world is lucky to have someone like you, who is always there for others.
• Beyond the word “thanks,” I hope you’ll feel my gratitude and appreciation for a very long time.
• You deserve recognition for the kindness you’ve shown me.
• My heart and soul are forever indebted to you. Thanks for being awesome.
• I wish you could feel the gratitude I’m feeling right now.
• I appreciate your thoughts and actions. It’s not every day I get to experience such kindness.

Words of Appreciation for Gifts

People always appreciate it when you take the time to thank them for a gift, especially if they didn’t get to see you open it.

· 
I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

·  You are one of the most generous people I know.

·  Are there no limits to your generosity?

·  You are so thoughtful and generous in your gift giving.

·  Thank you for the delightful gift.

·  You must have read my mind because your gift is exactly what I wanted.

·  You picked the perfect gift for me.

·  Thanks for being so thoughtful.

·  Your gift means a lot to me.

·  If you could see my face right now, you’d see a look of gratitude.

·  Thank you for showering me with gifts for the baby.

·  You made my birthday a special day.

·  I am grateful for you and your generosity.

·  Thanks for thinking of me; you made my day.

Words of Appreciation for Help & Support

For someone who has been there for you or encouraged you during a difficult time, a message of gratitude is a great way to thank them.

·  How can we ever thank you enough for all you’ve done? We’re forever grateful.

·  You helped me right when I needed help most.

·  If anyone deserves thanks, it’s you.

·  I really appreciate your support in this endeavor.

·  You have been extremely supportive through this difficult time. I could not have gotten through it without you.

·  We must thank you for your support at this time.

·  I want to thank you for all the support and concern.

·  That was very kind of you. How can I ever repay you?

·  Your support has made me a stronger person and I will forever be grateful.

·  Thank you for always being there for me.

·  Taking the time to help me was a very nice thing for you to do. Thanks so much.

·  Thank you for thinking of me and taking the time to be kind.

·  You are the most beautiful and wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. I’m so lucky!

Words of Appreciation in the Workplace

To help keep things positive in the workplace, a few words of thanks or support can make employees feel appreciated and valued.

· 
You are a great employee and a positive force around the office.

·  I want to acknowledge everyone’s extra effort.

·  You did an excellent job on that report.

·  I want to thank you publicly for your hard work and dedication.

·  Your attitude and work level suit us here, so keep up the good work!

·  Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience with me.

·  You have been a valuable member of our team.

·  Thank you for giving me the chance to fulfill my potential here.

·  Your commitment to this project is second to none.

·  I appreciate you supporting me at the meeting.

·  You have a winner’s attitude.

·  Thank you for sharing your vision.

·  Your commitment to excellence has inspired others.

·  We appreciate your innovative thinking.

·  Your attention to detail puts you at the top.

·  Thank you for taking the initiative and getting it done.

Show Your Appreciation

Showing appreciation through words in cards, texts, social media posts, or face-to-face conversations can turn someone’s day around. Find the right way to say thanks to everyone in your life.

• Words to Thank a Teacher
• Words to Thank Volunteers: Messages to Show Appreciation
• How to Say Thank You in Many Languages
• Examples of Words for Thank You Notes

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by jgl – 12 July 2022

The Universe is totally orderly. It’s ruled by the laws of physics…many of which we know,

even though many of the details remain a mystery. One of these basic laws is entropy…in nature all systems break down. That is the natural order of things. It’s a plodding, predictable process. The explosion of a supernova may look chaotic, but it isn’t. However, a human sitting quietly on a chair is a seething cauldron of contradictory, living, biochemical activity in contrast to the comparatively sedate, inanimate supernova.

          Life is chaos. Life is the only disorderly system in the universe.  It actively fights against entropy. Take our immune system, for instance. Life tries to repair itself.  Life also actively tries to replicate itself with thousands of genes per species genome. Volcanoes, tectonic plates, solar flares, and galaxies do not try to either repair or replicate themselves.  They simply disintegrate without complaint.

          Living organisms comprise an infinitesimally tiny percentage of the mass of the Universe and contain perhaps even a smaller percentage of the energy of the universe.  If the mass and energy of living organisms on Earth were spread out uniformly even in just our tiny solar system, they would be undetectable…unlike those distant, cold asteroids in the Kuiper Belt. Thus, we have no idea how common life may be in the universe. All we do know is that there doesn’t seem to be any lurking around us anywhere within many light years .

          These observations help us understand why our lives, towns, countries, and cultures are so desperately chaotic.  The most chaotic substance in our solar system is packed into a space that’s 36 billion times smaller than our solar system and 330,000 times smaller even than our Sun.

            Let us not wonder why our lives and cultures are such a living mess. Let’s just all be very glad that they aren’t worse. Better yet, encourage the only three elements in our natures that can turn down the chaos…Empathy, Reason, and Humanism.  All other human mental processes add substantially to the chaos. Do not do unto your neighbors that which you would want done unto yourself. Rather, do unto your neighbors that which they would want done unto themselves.  This caveat does not apply, of course, if your neighbor is a masochist or psychopath or is otherwise mentally befuddled. Then you must apply Empathy, Reason, and Humanism to determine what is best for that person. If you’re not sure… don’t do anything. As Hippocrates said: “The first principle is to do no harm”.

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BILLY’S NOTES :

I deeply appreciate this “Cup of Wisdom” from my dear friend “jgl”. We basically think alike. While I promote “BE NICE ME. NO HURT EACH OTHER”. (See recent post: “TWO PLUS YEARS OF FRIENDSHIPOLOGY – WHAT HAVE I LEARNED?”), he quotes Hippocrates’ “THE FIRST PRINCIPLE IS TO DO NO HARM.” CHEERS !

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By Billy Lee – July 2022

Be Nice Me,  for I really like to be Your Friend.

Be Nice Me,  for you surely want me to Be Nice You.

Teachers teach us to Be Nice to Each Other, to Everyone, even Those who aren’t nice

I will Be Nice You, for  I really like to be Your Friend.

Don’t hurt me, for it hurts when you take my toys and sometimes break them.

It really hurts when you ignore me or tell me that I’m no good.

It takes away all Trust when you tell others lies about me.

Please don’t force me to dislike someone else who actually has been nice to me.

Be Nice Me for we can share Joy & Fun.

Be Nice Me,  for we can build sandcastles together, and we can paint together and give our best drawings to please our grandmothers or Nai Nais.

Cheers !  Let’s All Just Be Nice.

NOT TO JUDGE OTHERS ABSOLUTELY
By Billy Lee – Feb. 2022

A recent post, “ It Takes Character To Apologize After 70+ Years” taught me a lesson and made me feeling more Hopeful & Encouraged. Yes, we have all made mistakes , but mistakes can be corrected. Feelings may have been hurt, but Good Feelings can be reinstated. Recognizing one’s own mistakes comes with experience and learning – sometimes enlightened by other people we trust. To apologize and offer amends shows maturity and indeed wisdom. Carrying a deep sense of guilt for any length of time is burdensome – not possibly enjoyable.

Sometimes we have hurt people without knowing so. Sometimes even good intentions bring unintended and not very good results. Often we react too quickly and most of the time we don’t take time to choose the most appropriate way to respond.

Two weeks ago, as my two adult sons came to dinner, I learned from them something unbelievable about myself. “ Dad, you were really blunt and demeaning to your Architectural assistants, when you had your practice at home. We heard it all. It wasn’t just once or twice ! “

Wow, I couldn’t believe that I was so unkind, but I could not deny that I had reprimanded the young assistants often and emphatically to drill deep my complaints. I had yelled “Stupid ! Have you no brains ?” Truly, I thought I was doing them a favor, but I did not do it the right way. Truly, I did not intend to hurt them, but I should have realized that the way I treated them was insensitive and inconsiderate. It could have hurt deeply as my two adult sons now assured me. I truly need to apologize to my young assistants – sincerely, most regrettably – belately – now after 30+ years.

I have been on the receiving side myself. My French teacher had called me, “Impossible ! Imbecile !” in front of the class. My mother had given me “Chestnut strikes” on my head how many times I don’t remember. Certain schoolmates had taunted me because I was Chinese and I was skinny with yellow skin. Fortunately, I am not a grudgingly sensitive person. I never considered myself a victim, and I found wonderful qualities from the same people after we got to know each other better.
Being kind of naïve is my real blessing. Forgiveness just comes naturally for me. It has served me well. Indeed, in today’s world we really need more tolerance and forgiveness. Apologies are not effective if the other side is not willing to forgive. Apologies surely will not be accepted if there is no trust in its sincerity.

Indeed, I must thank my nurse maid who told me about Guan Yin (觀音) , the Goddess of Mercy , when I was a child in China.

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10″ DOS” reach out & Be A Friend         交好友的十条

Be joyful & encouraging                  要快乐和鼓舞

Be trustworthy & reliable                 要忠诚和信赖

Be open & tolerant                      要坦诚和容忍

Be patient & calm                      要耐心和平静

Be considerate & respectful              要理解和尊重

Be humble & willing to apologize          要谦恭和乐于抱歉

Be caring & engaging                    要关心和奉献

Be sincere & loyal                      要真诚和忠心

Be smart but also kind                  要精明和和蔼

Be generous ,unselfish, & willing to forgive  要宽宏大量和无私, 多原谅

10 “DON’TS” stirring up fear, suspicion, anger, & resentment  交友应避免的十条

DON’T be indifferent, passive & not caring          不要不感兴趣，被动和不关心

DON’T be self-righteous, arrogant & demeaning     不要狂妄自大 和 贬低, 贬损

DON’T be disrespectful and inflexible              不要不尊重和固执

DON’T be humorous while hurting other’s pride    不要因幽默而损害他人的自尊

DON’T be a bully  (only feared but never loved)       不要 恃强凌弱 以大欺小

DON’T be carelessly critical & insulting             不要漫不经心的批评和侮辱

DON’T be pretentious or cynical                  不要自命不凡和冷嘲热讽

DON’T expect others to change instantly         不要期望他人即刻改变

DON’T expect others to agree on everything      不要期望他人同意所有的事情

DON’T let a small difference turn into hatred   不要因一点小小的分歧而变为憎恨

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TAKES CHARACTER TO APOLOGISE AFTER 70+ YEARS- by Billy Lee – Feb. 2022

Classmate George wrote to fellow classmate Walter::

Dear Walter,
Billy copied me on your email information about Andover’s motto: “NON SIBI”.                                  I Ihave lived since Andover with the guilt of my reprehensible behavior Lower year in Salisbury house. Thanks to Billy, I have a chance to apologize. No excuses! I’m sure Suds would join me.

We were so full of ourselves, there was little room on several occasions, to act in what became and was and is, civil and friendly behavior. I’ve lived with the guilt ever since.
Your story parallels the history of other classmates. Believe it or not, I’m a published author as of 2015, a far cry from my interest back then.
I understand completely the reason we have lost contact. I hope it’s not too late to make amends.
I’m attaching “Some Enchanted Afternoon”. We are living in Essex, Ct.
                                                Sincerely,
                                                  George

Walter replied:

Dear George:  Your memory is better than mine. I remember there was something in Salisbury House, but that’s all: details rubbed away. 
I do remember that Bob Thompson lived across the hall from me that year at Andover; for many of the years I’ve been at Yale, he was master of Tim. Dwight College, one block away from my house. Our paths very occasionally crossed. RIP. You can catch up with me in Wikipedia.  No amends needed.

Best regards,  Walter

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Mike Fink wrote: “i met billy ming-sing in 1951, our freshman year at yale, class of 1955.  i invited him home to providence, r.i. that first thanksgiving.  he came, brought charming gifts  (a box of chinese tea and a lounge robe.  which i wore and kept and then gave away to a lovely girl who said no to me and turned into a vanished dream.  many decades later at a reunion i asked billy what he could recall of that event and he said “nothing” but then proceeded to join me in a loyal bond with the very idea of yale nostalgia.  and now, we are the bookends, the pillars, of our vanishing class roster.  we are survivors and somehow beyond friendship it has become a symbolic and “existential”  (i use that word loosely, perhaps privately, maybe as the poetic credo of our generation, in some way) bond.  i have many chinese students at the r.i. school of design, and i have a special good will toward them and keep in touch long, long after their commencements as their alum status transforms into a wine of good will and even a kind of intimacy.  currently i have an alum and former t.a. named yifan du in china who told me i inspired him to try to teach as i do.  i know profoundly my own failures and inadequacies, but his faith in me stands for the way friendship works.  brings out the best along with the small and humble virtues of gratitude, respect, good will, and provides a needed comfort in these times of distancing and doubting.  anyway, if this does manage to reach you, thank you so very much, billy, for staying with me ! 

i am currently the longest serving faculty member in the history of RISD (Rhode Island School of Design )  i came as an instructor in 1957 and have not quite yet retired, although i believe that by the time my present elective classes will reach semester end in may,  my final accounting will be to gather up my souvenirs, books, and assorted paintings and framed sketches from my marvelous office salon and find someplace to pile them up.  then what? shall i live out my allotment of years among the crates and shelves and with my wife’s impatience with the heap of histories,…or will the gods figure out something surprising for me?  dunno.  my only travels to china were by way of hong kong, where i spent a sabbatical semester, or part of it, offering to the baptist college there how to gather the best dvd movies from the hollywood of my/our generation, featuring portraits of china.   oil for the lamps of  china.  the bitter tea of general yen.  (frank capra film with barbara stanwyck and nils asther  (i think) )  and a number of others…..hoped to make it to the jewish town of kaifeng to “research” the connection between the silk road communities of a lost tribe of israel and now the visits of students to reconnect these chapters.    hey i didn”t mean to go on and on,  once you reach a certain age you tend to over-answer simple questions, so i’ll stop here for now   i have taught bird watching, documentary film-making, and “journalism”–for six decades and more.

forgot to include the flick  “the painted veil” with greta garbo and herbert marshall and george brent.  taken from a somerset maugham story    among the dvd choices i asked the hong kong baptist college to add to their new collection of hollywood’s evolution, politically, toward china.  in the dramatic years of the 1930s into the 1940s.  oh i could go on and on about that,  but i will spare you for now.  i did visit the hotel in hong kong where somerset maugham kept his social set lively …”

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Simple practices for resilient happiness from Rick Hanson, PhD

Copied by Billy Lee – January 2022

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Why?
Friendliness is a down-to-earth approach to others that is welcoming and positive.Think about a time when someone was friendly to you – maybe drawing you into a gathering, saying hello on the sidewalk, or smiling from across the room. How did that make you feel? Probably more included, comfortable, and at ease; safer; more open and warm-hearted.
When you are friendly to others, you offer them these same benefits. Plus you get rewarded yourself. Being friendly feels confident and happy, with a positive take on other people, moving toward the world instead of backing away from it. And it encourages others to be less guarded or reactive with you since you’re answering the ancient question from millions of years of evolution – friend or foe? – with an open hand and heart.

In its own quiet way, ordinary friendliness takes a stand that is almost subversive these days: that the world has many more opportunities than threats, that most people want the best for others, that simple informal human connections tie this battered old planet together much more than jumbo corporations or mass media flickering on the walls of our upholstered caves.

How? You can be friendly with intimates and strangers, co-workers and in- laws, babies and bosses – even those you know only in the abstract, like people on the other side of the world. Of course, it is not always appropriate to be friendly with someone, such as to an adversary or to someone who would misunderstand you. But opportunities for greater friendliness are probably all around you this week. To warm up your brain’s circuits of friendliness, you could try one or more of these: Recall being with someone who cares about you.Remember when someone was friendly to you.Bring to mind a time when you were friendly to someone.Get a sense of the posture, movements, gestures, and facial   expressions of a person you know who is naturally friendly. Relax your body into a feeling of friendliness: leaning forward a   little, rather than back; softening and opening your chest, face,   and eyes; breathing goodwill in and out. Then look for everyday opportunities to be friendly. Often you will just give a smile, handshake, or nod – and that is plenty. Maybe it’s offering a few minutes to talk. Or a morning hug or goodnight kiss. Or an extra touch of warmth in an email. Stretch yourself, but stay within the range of whatever is authentic. Remember that friendliness is not agreement or approval; it does not mean you have given up on whatever your stances may be in the relationship. Friendliness does not equal friendship; in truth, most relationships are with friendly acquaintances. Consider your family and friends. What about being more friendly with your lover or mate? Having worked with couples for many years, it’s painful to see how often basic friendliness is a casualty in a long- term relationship. Or being more friendly toward parents, siblings – or your own children? Again, it’s startling how easily friendliness can be crowded out of our most important relationships by busyness, little irritations and hurts, or weariness from working too hard. But bits of friendliness, sprinkled here and there, can be absolutely transformational in a relationship. Try it and see! Also, consider being friendlier toward people you might normally ignore or treat with distance, even coolness. Such as wait staff in restaurants, someone shuttling you to the airport, or – breaking the big taboo – strangers in an elevator. Last and not least, there is friendliness toward animals (“great and small, seen and unseen, omitting none” ) . . . plants . . . your body . . . and yourself. Even friendliness toward inanimate objects: greeting the door before you open it, the ground about to meet your feet; not slamming the drawer in, but instead wishing it well; welcoming the cup rising to your lips. See what happens. Take in the rewards, like one small log after another, fueling that warm glowing fire on the hearth in your heart.

Know Someone Who Could Use More Friendliness ?        Share this Just One Thing practice with them!     ___________________________________________________

Ancient Chinese Quotes on Friendship

—  与其得小人，不如交愚人。 作者:(宋) 司马光

Better befriend a Fool than a “Small Immoral Person”.       Author: (Song Dynasty)  Sima Guang

 —  君子不镜于水，而镜于人。镜于水，见而之容;   镜于人,  则知凶与吉.  作者: 墨翟 

“Gentleman” does not look at water, but looks at people. Look at the water, you can see what’s there;  look at people, you see the evil and the good.   Author: Mo Di

—  以权利合者，权尽而交疏。 作者:(汉) 司马迁

Joining purely to gain power and advantage, eventually brings conflict and confusion.  Author: (Han) Sima Qian

—大凡敦厚忠信，能攻吾过者，益友也; 其诌媚轻薄，傲慢亵狎，导人为恶者， 损友也。 作者: 朱熹                      

Those who are honest, loyal and can point out my faults are Good Friends, indeed. Those who are flattering and frivolous, arrogant and obscene, leading others to evil, are in fact Harmful Friends.    Author: Zhu Xi

 —   宴笑友朋多，患难知交寡。 作者:(清) 蒲松龄

Many friends laugh and have fun together. Only crisis reveals true Friendship.    Author: (Qing) Pu Songling

—   当路谁相假，知音世所稀。 作者:(唐) 孟浩然

Who is there to help promote me along the way? Very few people truly understand me.  Author: (Tang) Meng Haoran

—   文士满华堂，不如一直友。  作者: 吴喜纪

Many scholarly exchangers not equivalent to one straight forward friend.   Author: Wu Xiji

—-  黄金万两容易得 知心一个也难求《红楼梦》

Large quantity of Gold is easier to acquire. Finding one Truly Understanding Friend is difficult,  From: “Dream of the Red Chamber”

— 士有妒友，则贤交不亲，君有妨臣，则贤臣不至。作者:荀况      

If a scholar has questionable friends, the virtuous ones will not come near. If the monarch has unworthy ministers, the virtuous ones will hesitate to join. ”    Author: Xun Kuang

—  君子居人间则治，小人居人间则乱。君子欲和人      ，譬犹水火不相能然也，而 鼎在其间，水火不乱，乃和百味是以君子不可不慎择人在其间。 作者: 刘向            

The “Gentleman” brings order to the world, while the “Little One” lives in chaos. The “Gentleman” seeks harmony with people even when water and fire are not compatible, In this tripod, water and fire are not chaotic, but are in harmony under all conditions. The “Gentleman” truly can not disregard his responsibility in between.     Author: Liu Xiang

—  朋友，以义合者。 作者: 朱熹

Friends, brought together via righteousness. ( That is Yi Qi.)       Author: Zhu Xi

–—   交得其道，千里同好，固于胶漆，坚于金石。  作者: 谯周

True Bonding, a thousand miles apart, firm as enduring paint, solid as gold and stone.   Author: Qiao Zhou

–—  浅近轻浮莫与交。 作者: 贯休

Don’t make FRIENDS with the frivolous.             Author: Guan Xiu

—  世事短如春梦，人情薄似秋云。作者:(明) 郑之珍

World events short like spring dreams. Human relations thin like an autumn cloud.          Author: (Ming) Zheng Zhizhen

—  人之相知，贵在知心  作者: 李陵

To really know each other, key is in knowing each other’s heart .      Author: Li Ling

–— 志合者，不以山海为远;  道乖者，不以咫尺为近          作者: 葛洪

People who value Friendship and Bonding do not allow mountains and seas become obstructive distance ; those who are wise, do not take proximity for granted. Author: Ge Hong

—  近朱者赤，近墨者黑。 作者: 傅玄

Stay close to Red (or Good) one becomes Red . Stay close to Black (or Bad) one becomes Black.     Author: Fu Xuan

—  势利之交，难以经远。 作者:(三国) 诸葛亮

Friendship based on power and personal benefits can not last long.      Author: (Three Kingdoms) Zhu Ge Liang

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