10″ DOS” reach out & Be A Friend 交好友的十条
Be joyful & encouraging 要快乐和鼓舞
Be trustworthy & reliable 要忠诚和信赖
Be open & tolerant 要坦诚和容忍
Be patient & calm 要耐心和平静
Be considerate & respectful 要理解和尊重
Be humble & willing to apologize 要谦恭和乐于抱歉
Be caring & engaging 要关心和奉献
Be sincere & loyal 要真诚和忠心
Be smart but also kind 要精明和和蔼
Be generous ,unselfish, & willing to forgive 要宽宏大量和无私, 多原谅
10 “DON’TS” stirring up fear, suspicion, anger, & resentment 交友应避免的十条
DON’T be indifferent, passive & not caring 不要不感兴趣，被动和不关心
DON’T be self-righteous, arrogant & demeaning 不要狂妄自大 和 贬低, 贬损
DON’T be disrespectful and inflexible 不要不尊重和固执
DON’T be humorous while hurting other’s pride 不要因幽默而损害他人的自尊
DON’T be a bully (only feared but never loved) 不要 恃强凌弱 以大欺小
DON’T be carelessly critical & insulting 不要漫不经心的批评和侮辱
DON’T be pretentious or cynical 不要自命不凡和冷嘲热讽
DON’T expect others to change instantly 不要期望他人即刻改变
DON’T expect others to agree on everything 不要期望他人同意所有的事情
DON’T let a small difference turn into hatred 不要因一点小小的分歧而变为憎恨
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