My dear friend Billy Lee asked me to add to his Friendshipology site so here are my musings on the topic. Friendships are an integral part of our deeply rooted social nature. As I age I cherish ever more the special people whom I consider to be my friends.
Being friendly and enjoying an activity with another person can be satisfying and enjoyable. To me, however, and for the sake of this writing, this is not the same as a true and deep friendship although those very special friendships often and typically begin in this way. Additionally, family members can be but aren’t necessarily true friends.
I enjoy reading quotations. After reading many about friendship, the ones below resonate the most with me. Through them I’ll describe what friendship means to me and the place it holds in my life.
. Friends are people who know you really well & like you anyway. – Greg Tambly
We get to know one another through open communications and trust. Friends are those who know our imperfections and accept us completely for who we are.
- Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer. – Ed Cunningham
Friends are deeply united with one another; not just by an enjoyment of activities and events, but from our hearts and souls within. With this comes a genuine interest in each other’s lives and a desire to deepen this knowing and understanding.
- I get by with a little help from my friends. – The Beatles
Friends help one another through difficult times. Help can be as simple as a drive to a car repair shop and as deep and profound as being emotionally available when a loved one passes. This giving and taking between friends is mutual and given freely over time. It can, of course be unidirectional when one needs it most.
- Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. – Marcus Tullius Cicero
Knowing we are accepted, listened to and valued for who we are provides satisfaction, as does giving this to our friends. In this way we celebrate and increase one another’s joy and comfort through difficult times.
- One’s friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human. – George Santayana
Being human is being in tune with our deepest emotions and needs. In most situations and with most people opening ourselves to this level of intimacy and vulnerability is not appropriate and can even put an unwanted burden on the other person. Friends provide the freedom to share at a deep level. Not everything and not to every friend, but far more than to others.
- The best things in life aren’t things… they’re our friends. – unknown
This quote doesn’t need any discussion; it is my favorite in its truth and simplicity.
Jeanne Gadol bio
Jeanne Gadol, a native Californian, exhibited her interest and talent in artistic expression since childhood. She found her creative niche with the advent of digital art and photography. A fulltime artist since 2000, she photographs, paints, and combines her photographs and paintings with other digital elements resulting in unique digital artistry. One of her greatest joys is knowing her art brings thousands of owners and viewers happiness and a sense of peace and wonder.
Her other sources of pleasure are being in nature and of course spending time with her friends and family. She lives in Portola Valley, California with her beloved husband and slightly crazy Siamese cat.
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