COMPASSION TRANSCENDS THE BOUNDARIES OF SOCIAL STATUS, AGE, HEALTH, & VARIOUS OTHER FACTORS –  CHAT.OPENAI.COM ADVISED BILLY

Think more about different sufferings by different people in different situations – poor or rich, old and young, healthy or sick etc. etc. . How does Compassion adjust to each of the above?

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Compassion is the capacity to understand and feel concern for the suffering of others, coupled with the desire to alleviate that suffering. It is a fundamental aspect of human empathy and connection, and it plays a crucial role in how we relate to and support individuals facing various forms of suffering, regardless of their background or circumstances.

Compassion’s response to different forms of suffering can vary, but its core principles generally remain the same:

  1. Empathy and Understanding: Compassion begins with the ability to empathize and understand the experiences of others. This involves putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and trying to see the world from their perspective, regardless of their social status, age, health, or other factors. By recognizing their pain and challenges, you create a foundation for offering genuine support.
  2. Equity and Fairness: Compassion doesn’t discriminate based on external factors. It treats all suffering as equally important and deserving of attention, regardless of whether someone is poor or rich, young or old, healthy or sick. Compassion strives to treat everyone with fairness and impartiality.
  3. Tailored Support: Compassion recognizes that different individuals may require different forms of support. For instance, a poor person might benefit from material assistance, while a rich person might need emotional support during a personal crisis. Similarly, a sick individual might need medical care, while a healthy person might need help navigating a difficult life transition. Compassion seeks to identify and provide the most appropriate form of assistance for each situation.
  4. Acting to Alleviate Suffering: Compassion is not just about feeling empathy; it’s about taking meaningful action to alleviate suffering. This might involve providing practical help, emotional support, or advocating for systemic changes that can reduce suffering on a broader scale.
  5. Respect for Dignity: Compassion recognizes the inherent dignity of every individual, regardless of their circumstances. It avoids pity or condescension and instead promotes a sense of shared humanity and mutual respect.
  6. Community and Connection: Compassion acknowledges that suffering is a shared human experience. It encourages the formation of supportive communities where individuals can connect, share their struggles, and find solace in knowing they are not alone.
  7. Long-Term Commitment: Compassion is not limited to short-term assistance; it recognizes that some forms of suffering require sustained effort and commitment. This could involve ongoing emotional support, rehabilitation for long-term health issues, or advocating for policy changes that address systemic injustices.
  8. Cultural Sensitivity: Compassion respects cultural differences and understands that the experience of suffering can be influenced by cultural norms and values. It adapts its approach to suit the cultural context and preferences of those in need.

In summary, compassion transcends the boundaries of social status, age, health, and other factors. Its overarching goal is to alleviate suffering and promote well-being in all individuals, while recognizing and respecting their unique circumstances and needs. It is a powerful force that can bring people together, foster understanding, and create positive change in the face of diverse forms of suffering.

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COLLABORATIONS IN PROMOTING GLOBAL COMPASSION DEEPEN OUR BOND By Billy Lee – August 2023

SENIOR BROTHERS, LARRY HO & BILLY LEE , INITIATED BY FF BOSTON LODGE IN 1951, CONTINUE TO BUILD MEANINGFUL BONDING TOGETHER. “Think not what FF can do for you. Think how together we can contribute together to FF. “. Both now near 90 years old, they aspire to inspire before they expire. Bro. Larry recently posted a Guest Blog by Bro. Billy in his  http://blog.sciencenet.cn/u/何毓琦 .  See: https://blog.sciencenet.cn/home.php?mod=space&uid=1565&do=blog&quickforward=1&id=

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Guest Blog by William MS Lee

已有 644 次阅读 2023-8-1 18:39 |个人分类:生活点滴|系统分类:海外观察

William (Billy) MS Lee is the first friend I made when I arrived in the United States in 1950. We were initiated into the same Chinese Student Fraternity, FF, in 1951. Thereafter we maintain contact over the next 70+ years as our friendship remains meaningful in our lives. Retired from Architectural Practice and Volunteering as a Founding Board Member of the 1990 Institute (focusing on US- China relations), Billy joined the USCPFA (US-China People’s Friendship Association) and started to do his personal informal research on Friendship via his <https://friendshipology.net>. Below is taken from one of his recent posts. 

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BILLY’S THOUGHTS ON COMPASSION, EMPATHY, and FRIENDSHIP – July 2023 

I truly believe that all people have INNATE GOODNESS and WEAKNESSES.        I prefer to focus on cultivating and promoting our INNATE GOODNESS like COMPASSION – CARING FOR AND HELPING EACH OTHERS and NOT TO HURT OR HARM ONE  ANOTHER.             That should be my simple GOAL & PURPOSE. 

  

EMPATHY is the skill we all need to learn to really understand each other’s emotions, aspirations, and feelings and learn how best to help each other wisely, effectively, and realistically.                                        That should be my consistent PRACTICE. 

  

FRIENDSHIP to me is OUR REWARD. It has been proven by many social surveys that FRIENDSHIPS & RELATIONSHIPS HAVE DEFINED OUR MEANING IN LIFE and brought TRUE HAPPINESS. FRIENDSHIP, btw, can be deepened if we PURSUE GLOBAL COMPASSION TOGETHER.  Yes ! I have recently joined Dr. Rick Hanson’s GCC (Global Compassion Coalition). 

This commitment brings me a PURE & WONDERFUL FEELING. 

William (Billy) Ming Sing Lee

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RESEARCH: Friendship to Empathy to Compassion CONCLUSION: Compassion to Empathy to Friendship – Lessons Learned from: Friendshipology.net

I truly believe that all people have INNATE GOODNESS and WEAKNESSES.

I prefer to focus on cultivating and promoting our INNATE GOODNESS like

COMPASSION – CARING FOR AND HELPING EACH OTHER and NOT TO

HURT OR HARM ONE ANOTHER. 

 That should be my simple GOAL & PURPOSE.

EMPATHY is the skill we all need to learn to really understand each other’s emotions, aspirations, and feelings and learn how best to help each other wisely, effectively, and realistically.   

That should be my consistent PRACTICE.

FRIENDSHIP to me is OUR REWARD. It has been proven by many social surveys that FRIENDSHIPS & RELATIONSHIPS HAVE DEFINED OUR MEANING IN LIFE and brought TRUE HAPPINESS. FREINDSHIP, btw, can be deepened if we PURSUE GLOBAL COMPASSION TOGETHER. Yeh ! I have recently joined Dr. Rick Hanson’s GCC ( Global Compassion Coalition).

This commitment brings me a very PURE and WONDERFUL FEELING.

Billy – William Ming Sing Lee

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CHINESE TRANSLATION of the above by Prof. An (CHINA)


比利对同情、共情和友谊的思

我真诚地相信,所有的人都有与生俱来的善良和弱点

我更愿专注于培养和提升我们与生俱来仁慈和善良——关心和帮助他人,而非彼此伤害或损毁对方,这应该是我的生活目标和人生意义

共情,是一种我们都需要学习的技能,它能让我们真正感受彼此的情绪、心愿和感觉,并学习怎样达到明智、有效和切实帮助彼此的最佳状态。这应该就是我的工作

谊对我来说,是人类的奖赏。许多社会调查证明,谊和社交关系,定义了我们生活的意义,并带来了真正的幸福。如果我们共同追求全球的共情,友谊一定能够不断加深地久天长正因此,我最近加入了Dr. Rick Hanson 里克·汉森  博士的 GCC(全球共情联盟)

加入联盟这一选择,带给我一种纯粹和美妙的感觉

比利·威廉  李名

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GOODNESS & GOOD FEELINGS RESONATE THRU MUSIC“ We are not alone “ – by Doris Lam – July 2023

A pleasant surprise when we attended a concert held in ISU in Pocatello. Since we started staying here for a few months each year to taste a difference from California, we indeed noticed that this small town appears quite isolated.  People are extremely friendly here, but we hardly meet any Asians other than the staff in Asian restaurants. 

Then we attended this choral festival event: CULTURE- TRADITIONS- FREINDSHIP- MUSIC – IDAHO INTERNATIONAL CHORAL FESTIVAL.

Touched by the lyrics of the theme song; further moved by the singing together by all choirs participating ( from Costa Rica, Idaho USA high schools, boys from Poland, Chinese women from Bay Area California, Tiantai Buddhism from China, youths from Catalonia ) at the end. 

I can’t describe the emotion I felt hearing them, especially when they sang ‘He is watching over us’ together.  They have different religions and basis of their hope; yet they were standing on the same stage sharing their passion. 

Indeed we shall not lose our hope. We shall continue to connect and pollinate.  

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Stephen Lee shared the above with Billy and added:
What do you think? How do you feel about this In the context of Friendshipology ?

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“COMPASSION, EMPATHY, & FRIENDSHIP” OFFERS MEANING TO LIFE“ WHAT CHEMISTRY IS THERE AMONG THE THREE ?” Billy asked CHAT.OPENAI.COM – July 2023


ChatGPT Replied:

Compassion, empathy, and friendship are interconnected concepts that are deeply rooted in human emotions and social interactions. While they may not have a direct chemical relationship, they share common psychological and emotional foundations that contribute to the depth and strength of human relationships. Let’s explore how these concepts relate to each other:

  1. Empathy and Compassion: Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person. It involves putting oneself in someone else’s shoes and experiencing their emotions. Compassion, on the other hand, goes beyond empathy. It is the genuine concern for the well-being of others, often leading to a desire to help or alleviate their suffering.

Empathy and compassion have been associated with the brain’s mirror neuron system and areas involved in emotional processing. When we empathize with someone, our brain activity can mirror their emotional states. Moreover, acts of compassion have been found to activate reward centers in the brain, which reinforces prosocial behavior.

  1. Friendship and Social Bonds: Friendship is a close and affectionate relationship between two or more people. It is characterized by mutual trust, support, and understanding. Social bonds, including friendships, are essential for human survival and well-being. These connections are believed to have evolutionary origins and play a role in promoting cooperation and group cohesion. 

The chemistry of friendship and social bonds is more complex and multifaceted. Hormones like oxytocin, often referred to as the “love hormone” or “bonding hormone,” are thought to play a role in the formation and maintenance of social connections. Oxytocin is released during positive social interactions, including hugging, touching, and trusting interactions, fostering feelings of attachment and bonding.

  1. Overlapping Aspects: Compassion and empathy are essential components of meaningful friendships. True friends are often compassionate and empathetic toward one another’s joys and struggles. Empathy allows friends to understand each other’s perspectives, while compassion enables them to provide emotional support during difficult times.

While there may not be a single “chemical” that encompasses compassion, empathy, and friendship, these concepts are closely related and have a profound impact on our social lives and well-being. The brain’s complex neurochemistry and the release of various hormones during social interactions contribute to the emotional bonds and connections we form with others, making empathy, compassion, and friendship significant aspects of our lives.

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BILLY’s Thoughts :

I truly believe that all people have INNATE GOODNESS and WEAKNESSES. I prefer to focus on cultivating and promoting our INNATE GOODNESS like COMPASSION – CARING FOR AND HELPING EACH OTHERS and NOT TO HURT OR HARM EACH OTHER. That should be my GOAL & PURPOSE.

EMPATHY is the skill we all need to learn to really understand each other’s emotions and feelings and learn how best to help each other wisely, effectively, and realistically. That should be my PRACTICE.

FRIENDSHIP to me is OUR REWARD. It has been proven by many social surveys that FRIENDSHIPS & RELATIONSHIPS HAVE DEFINED OUR MEANING IN LIFE and brought TRUE HAPPINESS. FREINDSHIP, btw, can be deepened if we PURSUE GLOBAL COMPASSION TOGETHER. Yeh ! I have recently joined Dr. Rick Hanson’s GCC ( Global Compassion Coalition).